Why change can be excellent
It is so easy to focus on the hard aspects of change that I wanted to take a look at what can be, and feel, good about change too. It’s important to acknowledge that all things contain...Read More
Conscious explorations of sex and desire: my journey into kink and BDSM
Some of the most powerful scenes in my first book (Appetite) are also the scenes hardly anyone talks about. Scenes where a married woman is masturbating because a half-stranger tells her to, scenes where she speaks of...Read More
How do I know if I am non-monogamous?
A man can do what he wants, but not want what he wants. – Arthur Schopenhauer in On The Freedom Of The Will (1839) Non-monogamy is the ability and desire to sustain more than one sexual and/or...Read More
At the start of a new year, many people assess their emotional wellbeing and their relationships. It’s natural to use this turning point of the old year to the new to evaluate and review where we are,...Read More
One road map for conscious relationships
Amsterdam, September 2016 When we first began exploring ethical non-monogamy, Anita and I quickly realised that there were core ideas and tools that would benefit all relationships. We also realised that there were familiar criticisms being levelled at us: not serious, not committed, no idea...Read More
Cheating? Feeling unable to understand or ask for what you want? You are not alone...
Alethya is a community that welcomes you wherever you are right now and wherever you want to go. We can support you on your journey to more honest, conscious and thriving relationships with all the people in your life, including the one you have with yourself. Connect with us or read, watch and listen what our community has been sharing.
Developing extraordinary conscious relationships
Alethya enables you to explore conscious relationships and all forms of personal connection, freedom & self-development within and from the heart of a supportive, growth-focussed network. We believe that meeting in person in a supportive environment beats a swipe right any day. We actively engage with everyone who is making, or wants to begin making, conscious lifestyle choices. We enquire, we debate, we share advice and our stories. We believe the greatest laboratory in the world is ourselves.