Time is not the indicator of your importance
Ask any relationship counsellor or therapist to name one key issue in ALL relationships and they will likely say: TIME. Too much, too little, a refusal to make plans, a focus on always having things fixed down,...Read More
New to the idea of non-monogamy / polyamory and openness?
New to the idea of non-monogamy / poly / conscious monogamy and conscious relationships? Alethya has got you covered Whilst this site is dedicated to supporting you in developing extraordinary conscious relationships of all types, many people...Read More
Game changers – what they are and how they affect you and your relationships
Game changer. This isn’t a very well-known phrase in dating and relationship circles but it’s a very common experience: it just gets called different things. It can be called: an affair, a new person, an epiphany, a...Read More
The one thing you need to do to improve your sex life
Let’s talk about sex. Because we don’t, do we? Not really. Not fully, authentically and honestly. I know why. So do you. And I think it’s a shame. A real shame. And that is why I want...Read More
On why you are good enough already, or Reflections on the self influenced by The Matrix
Neo-liberalist politics, mainstream media and advertising relentlessly tell us that we are broken, flawed and not good enough. We are told, usually indirectly, that we need to be eating better, looking better, being better. Society tells us...Read More
Who is in your bedroom with you right now?
It has been over three years since the Ashley Madison hacking scandal and, with social media increasingly cited as a cause for the breakdown of relationships, maybe it’s time to take a look at how and why...Read More
One road map for conscious relationships
Amsterdam, September 2016 When we first began exploring ethical non-monogamy, Anita and I quickly realised that there were core ideas and tools that would benefit all relationships. We also realised that there were familiar criticisms being levelled at us: not serious, not committed, no idea...Read More
Cheating? Feeling unable to understand or ask for what you want? You are not alone...
Alethya is a community that welcomes you wherever you are right now and wherever you want to go. We can support you on your journey to more honest, conscious and thriving relationships with all the people in your life, including the one you have with yourself. Connect with us or read, watch and listen to what our community has been sharing. Read More
Developing extraordinary conscious relationships
Alethya enables you to explore conscious relationships and all forms of personal connection, freedom & self-development within and from the heart of a supportive, growth-focussed network. We believe that meeting in person in a supportive environment beats a swipe right any day. We actively engage with everyone who is making, or wants to begin making, conscious lifestyle choices. We enquire, we debate, we share advice and our stories. We believe the greatest laboratory in the world is ourselves.
Thursday September 12 2019, 6:30 pm
Radical Futures – “Extreme Dating” panel event
Location: London, UK
Wednesday September 18 2019, 6:45 pm
Everything you wanted to know about open relationships – an evening with Dr Lori Beth and Anita Cassidy
Location: London, UK