
Blog
Ambiamory – on choosing to be solo-polyamorous
I turn 48 this year and it’s a decade since the seismic shifts that led...
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Blog
Conscious relationships: not a numbers game
Many people think about non-monogamy or poly in terms of numbers: numbers of partners, play...
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Blog
One-penis policies: processing jealousy and the need for rules about rules
The question that most people ask, when they learn that a person is exploring a...
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Opinions
Change and acceptance
Everything is always changing so nothing can be yours – Shunryu Suzuki I love the...
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Blog
Getting to know people vs ‘dating’, or: dating doesn’t work, and we need to keep dating
This year, I stopped using the d-word. It feels like a relic from a past...
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Blog
Conscious Dating: NRE and the different stages of love and relationships
Do you know what NRE is? NRE stands for “new relationship energy” and refers to...
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Blog
Conscious Dating: the three date rule and other myths
This is part of a series of posts on conscious dating. You can read more...
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